I am not Spanish, but I have been resident in Spain for years. Can I get divorced in Spain?
Yes. Even if your spouse has now left Spain, you may also be able to divorce here, so long as certain conditions are met. The Spanish courts may then have to apply Spanish law or a foreign law, depending on the particular circumstances of your case.
Am I likely to be better off divorcing my husband in Spain or abroad?
In some cases, the position can be the same. Where two English people divorce in Spain, for example, the Spanish courts must apply English law: so, if you'd be entitled to be paid X in the UK, you should in theory be entitled to be paid X here too.
Why in theory?
Because a Spanish judge, when applying a foreign law, is still likely to approach the issues with a Spanish legal frame of mind and may not construe the case exactly as a foreign judge applying her/his own law - would do.
How can you demonstrate to a Spanish court what a foreign law says?
By providing the Spanish judge with certificates from appropriate legal experts which set out what the foreign law says in relation to every relevant aspect of the divorce.
Im Scottish, my wifes from Madrid, and we have lived in the Canaries since we married a few years ago. What law should be applied and where and must I allege her adultery as the cause of divorce?
You can divorce in the Canaries; Spanish law is applicable to your case; and, no, theres no requirement under Spanish law to allege any fault on either side.
How long must we be legally separated before we can divorce in Spain?
If Spanish law can be applied to your case, you can apply directly for divorce one you've been married for three months - no previous legal separation is required. But in those cases where domestic violence can be proved, no such three month period has to pass and the victim can apply for divorce straight away.
My husband says he has a Spanish lawyer friend who can act for both of us in the divorce is that OK?
This is right only if both parties completely agree on all the terms of a divorce and there is absolutely no disagreement between them.
My wife left Spain after we were divorced a couple of months ago, returning to the UK with our twins. I have had one visit to the children in England, but now she's being difficult about my seeing them and is basically putting up all sorts of excuses to stop me from doing so. Can I do anything ?
Probably, but you need to move fast. The Spanish courts will retain the right to re-open the contact aspects of your divorce for a period of three months from when the children were lawfully taken out of Spain to live in the UK.
Im divorcing in Ireland. The only link we have with Spain is a Spanish holiday home. How can this best be dealt with in our divorce?
First of all, the Irish courts must understand that there's no simple mirror order procedure in Spain. The Irish divorce order can be made to apply to your Spanish home, but the order will need very careful wording. The best thing is for your Lawyers to work with your Irish counsel to ensure that the phrasing of the Irish court order is correct before it is made. Oh, and there's another thing ...
You should now either change your Spanish will or make a Spanish will (if you haven"t already got one).